With having our first girl comes some
major decisions for E and I. We have had to do much of the decision
making early, because we don't want there to ever be a question in
what we will do. We've talked about everything from how long we want
her to share a room with her brother to when she should be allowed to
pierce her ears.
One of the big decisions we've had to
make is in regards to modesty. E and I have a very firm belief that
modesty is very important and we want to raise our daughter to feel
the same way. As I have been out shopping for little girl clothes it
has amazed me at how many sleeveless, short, and otherwise
inappropriate outfits are available in newborn sizes. It's crazy!
It is never to soon for me to start my
daughter dressing modestly so we have collected a variety of sleeved
undershirts to go with the fun dresses and other outfits I have
found. I'm also looking forward to making many of Baby F's clothes so
that I can make sure they fit her modestly.
One thing I'm not going to attempt to
make however are modest swimsuits. Stretchy fabric is not exactly my
cup of tea when it comes to sewing. Hopefully someday I'll learn to
deal with it better but for now I'll be leaving that particular job
to the experts.
I hope that by teaching my daughter to
be modest that I can give her a sense of self-worth and beauty that I
feel many girls and women are lacking. You don't have to be showing
lots of skin to be beautiful. You should be able to go swimming
without worrying about your suit coming off in the waves. It is
simply nice to be able to go about your daily routine without having
to worry about showing things you shouldn't because there is no way
for them to accidentally appear.
Do you have any tips on how to teach a
young girl about modesty? This mom of her first daughter would love
to hear any tips you may have!
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